一隻鞋需要一隻鞋

一隻鞋需要一隻鞋

一個老人在行駛的火車上
不小心從窗口把剛買的新鞋弄掉了一隻
周圍的人都為他婉惜
不料那老人立即把第二隻鞋也從窗口扔了出去
讓人大吃一驚

老人解釋道
這一隻鞋
無論多麼昂貴
對我來說也沒有用了
如果有誰撿到一雙鞋
說不定還能穿呢

顯然
老人的行為
已有了價值判斷
與其抱殘守缺，不如斷然放棄
我們都有過
某種重要的東西
失去的事
且大都在心理上
投下了陰影

究其原因
就是我們並沒有調整心態
去面對失去
沒有從心理上
承認失去
總是沉湎於已經不存在的東西

事實上
與其為失去的而懊惱
不如正視現實
換一個角度
想問題
也許你失去的
正是他人應該得到的

普希金在一首詩中寫道
“一切都是暫時的，一切都會消逝；
讓失去的變為可愛."

有時
失去不一定是憂傷
而是成為一種美麗
失去不一定是損失
也可能是奉獻
只要我們抱著積極樂觀的心態
失去也會變為可愛。

很多人都在選擇及猶豫中
錯過許多機會
其實大膽的去尋找事實真象
才能有所收穫

每个人的pattern都不同....

Few days ago, when I tried to communicate with my Bro with regards to his new/first job, we kind of get into dispute and I realised that he's just one stubborn Pig. Hmmmm guess we all have it in our blood which makes us all unique and has our own thinking. I'm just one stubborn OX =P .. Anyway.. so this is what came to my mind...

Everyone is just so different and special in their own way, I guess.

Anyway, brother has finally got his first job, so wishing him the best and not be bullied by others. I've been new bird and has been training new colleuages, seen them came n left, worked with them and observed every single one's style and such.. Ha.. so guess this time round, I'm nicer to the new comers, as in less harshness, ha.. must 积some德, so other pple wont bully the ones I love.. ha =P

Last week, went to help out my friend for some charity work and get the opportunity to hang ard with the young children.. Argh.. making me miss the primary school days. And look at them.. they are so cute... but of course, one or two is those naughty ones, talkative ones, shy ones, smart one.. all sort of pattern...but still so cute.. and Wont mind if I could have more opporunity in future to work with them again~~

Just there's this little gal called Cecilia ... P4 student sooo Cute.. ha.. all of us, just like her so much. =) and those 2 little sweetie pie, Indian and Malay, they are soo Pro in their presentation, u know what? They even bow n greeted the audiences and has que cards in their hand. Very well prepared and won all of our Claps.!!!

Enjoy just some pics~

勇于跨越。。。。。

I used to worry too much and it caused me something important in life,
so, to those who need just someone to encourage you.. Well,
Jiayou!
Really, sometimes you are just sooo near to achieving, dun give up so easily or taken back by fear or lack of confident.. If you do not try, you will not know what will happen and be it good or bad, at least you know u have tried.
Then it will not become an 遗憾！
Ｓｏ，　加油！！！！　

I'm back =)

Harlo!

I have finally completed part of my dream to travel with my parents, as this time round I only did it with mammy and I'm looking forward again for CNY. Might be going KOREA with Mom n Dad. See how..

OK. Update of my 8 days tour in TW. The tour guide, I named him 阿福, is quite an experienced guy and he guided us very joyable as he talked and share many things.

Things varied from History to health to feng shui and accordingly to him, even mentioned that he has added additional itineray for us... And thanks to his company, we could have had the "high-class" lunch at the 85th Floor of TAIPEI 101. Hahaha..

Well well, didnt know that TW is made up of many mountains and hills, and it's really relaxing to see one of the scenery: 风吹沙, really, very very nice!!! Another remarkable thingy is the Kenting bench? It should be very nice but unfortunately, didnt have the chance to go to the bench as we had a rushing journey to go, so when we reach there it's already evening timing, all we could do is just went for the seafood dinner and viewed the bench from FAR (Hotel). The gateway to the bench is not even opened until 9am which was supposed to be our meeting time. =( sob...

but well, enjoyed it with my mammy despite the very last day i kind of "fought" with her. Bad bad me.. hee.. cos we kind of lost our way at the underground of that TAIPEI train station (MRT), and she "suaned" me of my NO sense of direction.. Argh.. angry.. ha.. but anyway, still it's just a small small part then we just ignore and continued my journey. ~ Happy~

I kissed my mom on her cheek when I wished her Happy Mother's Day.. it was a very surprised kiss.. hee.. I faked to wanted to whisper to her and planted the kiss on her instead.. I saw her smiling sweetly.. Whahahaha..

Dum, 被你说中了，if you started your day with the tots of "xian-ness", you'll face lousy day and guess what happened?! Argh... i saw not just 1 but 2 COCKROACHES!!!! Horrible. the first one is SO huge but luckily it went hiding into the carbinet so I could continue brushing my teeth. Thinking, okay fine, I'll just go wash up and ignore the cockroach, but who knows, in the bathroom there's another!!! ~ Cry out loud~ There's no one to save me and I cant afford to go out w/o bathing as I smelled so sweaty!!! Argh.. no choice i can only made a super fast wash (I still need to wash hair) and keep staring at the same spot that very Kroach went into. Sighz... I'm so scared n crying inside me.. sob..

臭dum dum, all ur fault. ha.. =p

okok.me going to make my photos for uploading... Tata =)